Male Chastity

This section was wrtiien by one of my readers who was 'into' chastity devices. I know litle about the subject, but was keen to find out more, why people do it and what is the attraction. If you have any queries, I will happily forward them on the the 'original reader'.

What wearing a chastity cage is all about?

I think there are many different motivators. I think some people prefer abstinence from sex, some people feel tortured by chastity and it scratches a masochist itch, some people use a cage to ramp up their horny feelings or to keep them feeling horny for a long time, and some people use it as part of their relationship dynamic which is sometimes but not always an SM relationship. For me being put in chastity is part of a power exchange, being caged makes me feel more submissive and view my partner as more dominant. For me not getting pleasure from my cock also helps me think about my hole more and how to get pleasure from it.
My cock is noticeably smaller after being confined for long periods in a really small cage. The smallest cage keeps me in a constant state of 'horniness' without the ability to cum. After being locked for my longest period yet, I recently changed into the smallest device in my collection. My cock has definitely shrunk from the long confinement period and now readily fits into the smallest cage. I am very happy with this amount of shrinkage and hope it shrinks even more.
I would ideally like a local KH (key holder) so that the control can be in-person and hands-on. All access by my KH alone.
Control of locking, unlocking, relocking, orgasm denial, edging, body hair.
This could be combined with bondage, cbt (cock and ball torture), tt (tit torture) and other activities.

Why people wear cock cages?

Most of the time considered as a BDSM sex toy, people wearing chastity devices are looking for some kind of power exchange aspect. The wearer - also called the submissive - is giving up his sexual life to the whoever is holding the key - also called the dominant. However, it can be also used to prevent addictions such as masturbation or sex, by helping the wearer to control his pulsion and desires.

Some reasons on why people decide to lock it up:

Sexual Tease and Denial

For short sex play, tease and denial aspect is popular amongst chastity belt wearers. The tension increases knowing that there is nothing you can do until the keyholder decide on when to open the cage. Every little tease becomes intense arousal. Teasing is just as important as denial. they go hand in hand. With a penis cage on, you are forced to savour the moment rather than racing to orgasm like most of us do. Chastity play games can be incorporated in the sessions.

Appreciation of Sexual release

Caged up, you will be happy with any sort of release / stimulation, you could get. A simple lick by your Dom is a gift you must be thankful for. Also, the release after a long-term wear is gratified with a more intense orgasm. Deprived from regular masturbation, your penis will become more sensitive and his orgasms will become stronger.

Training or behaviour correction

In BDSM lifestyle, punishments & rewards are part of a submissive training plan. Thus, bad actions are enforced with release denial, while good action can grant a quick escape out of a male chastity cage.

Reminder of ownership

An extension of the Dom to sub relationship is often represented by a physical object such as collar or a ring. A chastity cage can represent the ownership and control the dominant has over his sub. It is like putting a dog on a leash.

Caged & Cuckold

Many cuckolds choose to be in chastity in order to live their cuckold lifestyle and improve their relationship with their partners. Reminding the chastity slave that his penis is for the partner's pleasure, aa a toy rather than as a male sexual organ, is an important element of cuckold slave training. The cuckold husband has to stop thinking of his penis as a source of pleasure for himself because when he has this idea, his attention will be focused on his penis. His only purpose of living has to be the pleasure of his partner. It is an act of true love and service.

Sex addiction - too much masturbation

A male chastity device locked, will prevent erection, sexual intercourse and masturbation, very efficient for masturbation addicts, It stops you from wasting your energy and libido masturbating. In a partnership, all the sexual strength and vitality should be directed at your partner. You are lowering your testosterone which should be built up for an ultimate dual pleasure. Sexual addicts can finally lock their desires efficiently, by giving the keys to their sexual power to a person willing to carry the keys.

A few questions and answers:

Q. When you are caged up and get sexually excited, your penis will try and get erect, but it can not increase in size. Does that actually stop ejaculation? Can a man ejaculate without getting erect?
A. Yes the penis is trapped in the cage, the smaller cage the better. You produce a lot more precum when cagged, i don't know why. You can ejaculate when cage, usually with prostate stimulation or a vibrator placed on the cage.

Q. Just how much has your cock shrunk as a result of wearing your smaller device?
A. Your cock shrinks by about 1 or 2 inches after a long period locked but i believe that this is not permanent. When you unlock the penis will get back to its normal size.

Q. So your penis is locked up, but as you say your anus is still available. So does your dominant partner take advantage and fuck you while locked up?
A. Yes this is one of the point of getting locked. When locked I focus a lot more on my anus and nipples. When lock as a sub you have to think more about the pleasure of your Top rather than your own.

Q. How noticeable is it when you are dressed - does it restrict your movement at all?

A. The cage that i am wearing now is small so it is not noticeable. I wear y-fronts as well so they keep the cage in position. Some chastity belts are a lot more voluminous and might show. Some subs wear their cage under speedo to go swimming and it is hardly visible.